Free guide for employers, HR professionals and employees

Working It Through

A plain-English guide to workplace mediation in Australia: who it is for, how the process actually works, and why it often produces better outcomes than escalation.

  • Who workplace mediation suits, and when a formal process should come first
  • The four steps, from initial enquiry to agreement and follow-up
  • How mediation sits apart from investigations, disciplinary and HR processes
  • What confidentiality does and does not cover at work
  • Why agreements people shape themselves tend to hold up months later
Cover of Working It Through, the workplace mediation guide

10 short chapters, in plain English.

Written to be read in one sitting, and to answer the questions people usually save up for the first phone call.

01
Welcome

Written for employers, HR professionals, managers and employees alike.

02
Who Workplace Mediation Is For

Seven situations it suits, and when a formal process should come first.

03
How the Process Works

Initial enquiry, individual sessions, the joint session, agreement and follow-up, and how to prepare.

04
The Framework in Plain English

Voluntary, confidential, and separate from investigations and disciplinary processes.

05
Why Mediation Works Better Than Escalating

The cost of unresolved conflict, and why agreements people shape themselves hold.

06
What You Can Expect From Your Mediator

Neutrality, confidentiality, practicality, respect, honesty and quality.

07
All Our Services

The nine services across family, workplace and later life.

08
Common Questions

Consent, what your employer learns, formal complaints, teams, cost and support people.

09
Where We See You

In person or online, wherever your organisation is based.

10
Ready to Take the Next Step

How to book, and what happens on that first call.

Is this guide for you?

Workplace mediation suits employers, HR professionals, employees and teams dealing with conflict that normal channels have not resolved. It works for early intervention and for situations where a formal process has already been tried. The guide is for you if any of these sound familiar.

Two colleagues are in ongoing conflict that is affecting their own work and the people around them
A team's communication has broken down to the point where meetings and handovers have become difficult
An employee and their manager disagree about something significant, and normal conversation has not resolved it
Tension has built up around performance feedback, expectations or a misunderstanding about what was agreed
A working relationship has broken down and needs to be rebuilt, even though the people involved will keep working together

Want the service itself rather than the guide? See our Workplace Mediation service.

Fay Alizai
About the author
Fay Alizai
Director, Alternative Mediations

Fay is a Director of Alternative Mediations. She runs mediation sessions online anywhere in Australia, at your workplace, or at the practice's rooms in Canberra, in English, Dari, Farsi, Tajiki and Hazaragi. She wrote this guide so that employers, HR professionals and employees know what to expect before they call.

“People who have played a real part in shaping an agreement are, understandably, more committed to actually following through on it. That commitment is often what keeps a workplace agreement holding up months later.” From Working It Through

Three questions the guide answers.

Do both people have to agree to take part?+

Yes. Mediation is voluntary for everyone involved. If one person genuinely does not want to take part, mediation is unlikely to help in that form, and we would talk through what other options might be appropriate instead.

Will my employer find out what I say in a mediation session?+

Mediation is a confidential process. It runs separately from any formal investigation, disciplinary or HR process, and what is discussed in sessions is not automatically reported back to management. Confidentiality has a small number of limits that we always explain before anything begins, for example where there is a risk of harm to someone or where disclosure is required by law.

Does mediation replace a formal complaint or investigation?+

No. Mediation is a separate, voluntary process. Where a genuine investigation or disciplinary matter is already underway, or clearly needed, mediation does not replace it. It can run before, alongside or instead of a formal process, depending on what fits your situation.

Get Working It Through

Enter your details and the download opens straight away.

Prefer to talk it through?

You do not need to read the guide first. Call us for a confidential conversation about your situation, with no pressure and no obligation.